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Taking Anemia Seriously?

There are a lot of changes that happen to your body when you transition. So many in fact, that the doctor can’t go over them all with you or even know them all for that matter. Each person is unique.

One thing that is often accepted as the “norm” is that women are often colder than men, or perhaps too “fragile” and need a borrowed coat. Or perhaps they simply do not poses as much body hair and fat as well as have a thinner outer layer of skin. No it’s probably just the “fragile” thing… right?

Wrong. So many things changed that were unpredictable and one of them was my need for iron supplements. You see, as my transition progressed levels of minerals and vitamins changed along with it.

After it had been a year in, I got a full check up and the doctor had some disturbing news,

“Everything looks good,” he began. “But, you’re dangerously close to being anemic.”

I start laughing uncontrollably.

“Ma’am! This is no laughing matter. This is serious,” he said to me, but I continued to laugh.

The poor doctor just looked at me confused.

You see, as a male I never had to deal with Anemia. Whatever! That was something my mother and cousins dealt with or other girls I knew, but not me. No way, no how. That was something that happened to women… and it was happening to me.

Because of this, I laughed and I laughed some more.

I thought, “Oh Charlie, you asked for this didn’t you?”

Now we all know Anemia really isn’t that serious unless you have some sort of eating disorder or perhaps a disease where it allows Anemia to set it, but typically just changing your diet or adding iron to it is enough.

“Would you please stop that?!” the doctor asked.

“I’m sorry, I’m sorry, ” I said as I gained my composure.

“Now it’s not bad,” he began. “If we just put you on some iron supplements I think it will be enough, but you should look into your diet and find a way to add more iron, ok?”

“Ok doc,” I said. “I’m sorry about earlier, doc, it’s just that I never thought I would ever hear someone tell me that I was anemic before, but my mother always had to worry about it, so it all makes sense now. I just found that to be hilarious. Don’t worry, I’ll pick up some supplements on the way home.”

“Oh ok, I see now,” he said still not amused.

But I still smiled.

And I still take iron supplements, just like my mother before me.

Be careful what you wish for, it may just come true.

 – Charlie <3

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The Attack On Jacie Leopold – HuffPost Blog


When I first read Jacie’s post on Facebook, I was stunned in every sense of the word. Shocked. Frightened. What I saw could easily happen to me or any one of my sisters in arms. I looked for more information about her attack online and didn’t find any. All I could find was a local blog post about her speaking at the Transgender Day of Remembrance in Fayetteville just last year. So I contacted her to see if she would confide in me to tell her story to the world and she did. For this I am honored:

Click the link here to be taken directly to the post about the attack on Jacie Leopold on the Huffington Post Blog

Jacie’s story is not a unique one as this is happening right now, all around the world. She is very lucky to be alive today and to have been able to speak at a TDOR event instead of being one of the names read out at it. The names of the Transgender people we’ve lost.

Here is Jacie’s original Facebook post:

Hi my name is Jacie. I am a 33yr old transwoman living in Arkansas. I came out as transgender well over a year ago….

Posted by Jacie Leopold on Thursday, January 28, 2016


You can help to stop Transgender violence by being our voices when we cannot speak. By being our friends, getting to know us and helping others to see that we are people just like them. You can help by standing up for us when no one is around. By shutting down and putting a stop to violence in the very place it starts:

The hateful words of another.

 – Charlize <3

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